Only love matters


Just because we are alone after the death of our spouse does not mean we will continue to feel that painful feeling of inner emptiness or loneliness. She still is One with you and you love and valuing being One with her. Don’t feel guilty that you can thoroughly enjoy your solitude, and still connect with her in that ONENESS. She is within that emptiness around your heart and you must stay open to that connection. We must be willing to feel our grief and lovingly manage it and learn from it. She once was there so she is still there deep within you. When we are connected with ourselves and God we can connect with our beloved spouse through being “God and us”. We remember her together with her in the Body and the Blood of Christ. So eat and drink in remembrance of Him and her. .Remember thy beloved in faith and fear and be present with her.- rejoice in your Oneness. Love is stronger than death. There is no before, no after, only love itself.

About thebows99krug

Hi, I am Eric, a retired librarian. I was born in St. Michael's Hospital, Toronto and raised in the downtown area north of the Art Gallery, south of the University of Toronto. I went to Orde Street Public School, Harbord C.I., University College at the UofT and the UofT's Faculty of Library and Information Science. I meet my wife Patricia at FLIS; our first date was on November 15, 1968. We were engaged February 14, 1969 and married on June 21, 1969. Our family includes son, James; daughter-in-law, Erin; (both writers), grand-daughters, Vivian and Eleanor; and Sonic, a very friendly ginger tabby. My beloved wife died January 7, 2017 and our 19 year old cat Pooka died January 8, 2017. I would like to hear from any other class of '63 alumni of Harbord C.I. and class of '67 alumni of UofT's University College.
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