You have found your “One” when in your heart of heart you feel you have found she who you have desired all your life; yes the One you have desired all your life. At your first meeting there was a faint and uncertain inkling of something you were born desiring beneath the flux of all other desires and in all the momentary silences between louder passions – what you had been looking for and watching for. listening for all your life. Suddenly and purely by chance here is the One you are made for – the secret of your soul. the ‘while we are this is’ that had been missing, lost and now is found. Here is true love, quiet love. If we are so much One with our spouse before death, how much more should we be so after death? Death, is not the end of life, it is merely the end of school; we go home to God! Death is the beginning of our really knowing and being fully One with each other and God forever. God and us! God is LOVE! If we are One before death ; how much more so must we be after death. She, like Christ, has gone to prepare a place for us after our death! Love is full grown only when it is remembered. Remembering is part of the love. We remember all our days but best when we lie down to die. Rejoining our spouse in heaven as One, that is real love because God is Love! In Heaven our individuality is no longer a mystery to each other. We are saved as One blessed and fortunate creature! At Death the term is over and the summer of your life together has begun, the beginning of the real story; life in the World to come. Blessed and fortunate , your eyes shall see and behold God and each other as One. “See the home of God is among mortals’ He will dwell with them; they will be his peoples, and God himself will be with them; he will wipe every tear from their eyes. Death will be no more; mourning and crying and pain will be no more; for the first things have passed away.” Revelation 21:3-4.