Category Archives: Family

This One Holy Trinity is our true and eternal home.


I have mentioned before that when I awake from a nap I can often see Pat typing messages to me on something that looks like Facebook. It usually goes by fast and I have trouble reading it. This time it … Continue reading

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Know thyself and thou shalt know God.


“A precious point of conscious, blissful, light energy, the soul…
This is you
Imagine a tiny point located where thoughts come from.
That point thinks, remembers and decides.
This point is you.
The point where every emotion is born…
This is you.
A spiritual being interacting through the body…
This is you.” — Brahma Kumaris Continue reading

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I believe and pray for such dreams as this! God and Pat speak in dreams.


From A Severe Mercy, by Sheldon Vanauken chapter X “The Oxford-Vision Dream“ It was morning. I had come back to Oxford two years after Davy’s death and found digs, a ground-floor room with its own door opening onto a large garden with paths angling … Continue reading

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Patricia, my love, you were a success!


Hey Pat in your writings about yourself, you got it wrong!  Thinking about our 48 years together I realise we really had a beautiful happy marriage. Yes this is absolutely true: Our quiet, sharing love was a spiritual union of souls: … Continue reading

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Pat and Pooka, I loved them both


Patricia A. Bow July 20, 1946 – January 7, 2017 Pooka September 17, 1987 – January 8, 2017

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Erin reads at Pat’s Funeral January 15, 2017


I am Erin. I’m James’ wife, Pat’s daughter-in-law. I’m here to read a poem. Pat, when she got this diagnosis, of course, sat down and put everything to square and picked out her hymns and specified the wishes for her … Continue reading

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Blessings


Counting our blessings: Thinking about our 48 years together I realize we really had a beautiful happy marriage. Yes this is absolutely true: “Patricia and I  were lucky enough to discover that quiet, intense love that is basic to life … Continue reading

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Dealing with my beloved’s death


Patricia and I  were lucky enough to discover that quiet, intense love so often written about in those love stories that move you to tears but seldom found in real life.  I used to pray nightly that the first girl … Continue reading

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James Bow’s Eulogy at Pat’s Funeral January 4th, 2017


Those who know me know that, throughout my life, I never called my mother nor my father “Mom” and “Dad”. I always called them by their first names, “Pat” and “Eric”. It shocked my friends the first time I called … Continue reading

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My Eulogy at the Funeral January 14, 2017


We are here for the end of one stage of Pat’s journey and the beginning of her journey in heaven.  I thought it appropriate to explain how our marriage journey began. Pat knew this was my favourite story and would … Continue reading

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