Category Archives: Grief

I am who I am

Posted on August 7, 2019 by thebows99krug

To be joined as one in marriage by God means there is another who I am one with as I am one with myself; as I love myself so too do, I love her. Yes, Patricia and I were one. … Continue reading →

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God and Us II

Posted on July 29, 2019 by thebows99krug

C. S. Lewis attempting to describe his own mystical event, says, “I felt as if I were a man of snow at long last beginning to melt. The melting was starting in my back—drip-drip and presently trickle-trickle. I rather disliked … Continue reading →

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Marriage united us as one

Posted on July 25, 2019 by thebows99krug

Pat truly understood what it means for two to become one when she wrote: “12th Anniversary Poem (fragments) 1981” “I know the scent and shape of you: I know you all, yet not at all. I linger with a connoisseur’s … Continue reading →

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God and Us!

Posted on June 29, 2019 by thebows99krug

Life is NOT meant to be about the pursuit of happiness; it is about becoming! Life, our life, is not ended, it is merely changed. Life is about learning to love and die in and with God. God is REALITY! … Continue reading →

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Looking for her presence

Posted on June 27, 2019 by thebows99krug

Had a revelation last night during the “hour of the wolf” – that period in the night between 3:00 and 6:00 am when you awaken and can’t get back to sleep. A nightmare awoke me – Pat had left me … Continue reading →

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Marriage: civil vs sacramental

Posted on June 23, 2019 by thebows99krug

Most of the major religions have their own internal debates, frequently heated, over the status of same-sex unions. Some denominations have endorsed marriage for same-sex couples. Others have taken a friendly position toward these unions. Mainline Protestant denominations are divided … Continue reading →

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The answer to Why

Posted on June 6, 2019 by thebows99krug

“The other momentous phrase that Jesus repeated at the Last Supper is the phrase “for you”. In the accounts of Matthew, Mark and Luke — and in Paul’s too (1 Corinthians 11:24ff.) — Jesus says, my body “given for you,””broken … Continue reading →

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Love and Marriage and Grief

Posted on May 25, 2019 by thebows99krug

Love needs an object; only saints can learn to love without an object. At first, we love only ourselves and our care giver; some never get past this aggressive self love. Most people need another human being, lover, friend, sibling, … Continue reading →

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Grief two years 4 months later.

Posted on April 24, 2019 by thebows99krug

In the early stages of grief we barely care about anything because the worst has happened. We walk in darkness. Eventually, if we believe, that empty hole around our heart is filled with the Presence of our beloved and we … Continue reading →

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The Love you seek is within you!

Posted on April 9, 2019 by thebows99krug

Love is within us all: God is Love. You are in love and love is in you. Love is in your heart and in your soul and in your mind.  It is in your blood and bone.  It is in … Continue reading →

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